Today, Jeff Harry is helping adults tap into what drove them as a kid by entering a state of play and rediscovering their true selves. Through play, we can add more joy to our lives and feel just like a kid again.

In this Interview:

• Jeff’s Influence Growing up
• Jeff experience being part of a minority race
• Starting Rediscover Your Playground
• Why did we stop playing?
• How Does One Play in Adulthood?

Let’s get right into it!

Jeff’s Influence Growing up

TW: Racial Discrimination

Jeff, growing up, was a “nerd.” Being “Philipino and Black” and living in a predominantly white suburb, he couldn’t change much physically to fit in with the ‘it’ crowd. He tried matching their hairstyle, getting the bangs, and styling it with moose, but that only resulted in a disaster resembling a “raccoon’s butt.” …

Today, Jeff Harry is helping adults tap into what drove them as a kid by entering a state of play and rediscovering their true selves. Through play, we can add more joy to our lives and feel just like a kid again.

In this Interview:

• Jeff’s Influence Growing up
• Jeff experience being part of a minority race
• Starting Rediscover Your Playground
• Why did we stop playing?
• How Does One Play in Adulthood?

Let’s get right into it!

Jeff’s Influence Growing up

Ryan Holiday is one of the most prolific authors of our generation. He averages one new book a year along with running a company and publishing new content monthly for a wide range of publications. There have been times when I’ve finished reading one of his new books and the next one arrives at my doorstep a week later.

I’ve had the good fortune of interviewing Ryan multiple times on the Unmistakable Creative Podcast. We also have the same publisher. …

If it were as easy to create an audience as it is to take an online course or follow a checklist of steps, everyone who started a blog would have thousands of readers and each podcast would have thousands of listeners. Every politician would win elections and every actor would have thousands of adoring fans.

People who gain traction, attention, loyalty, and manage to stand out in a sea of noise understand the psychology of building an audience.

Building an audience for your work requires a combination of work, social intelligence, and an understanding of human behavior. …

In this interview, Sarah Vandella demystifies and de-stigmatizes the adult film industry. The adult film industry is a subculture that most of us have little knowledge or understanding of. Looking in from the outside, it’s something that people tend to stigmatize and judge on.

She talks about her 13 years of experience in the industry while sharing some thought-provoking insights on sexuality, sex education, and relationships.

In this Interview:

• Sarah’s Childhood
• Getting into the Adult Film Industry
• Coming out to her parents
• De-stigmatizing the Adult Film Industry
• Preventing the Negative side of the Industry
• Differentiating between Personal and Professional Life
• #MeToo In the Adult Film…

Of all the areas in our lives, none shape our behavior, health, and happiness as much as our environment. We are byproducts of our environment. We can’t always control the circumstances or outcomes of our lives, but we can shape our environment.

If your environment makes you feel stable, balanced, and grounded, you’re more likely to feel confident taking measured risks and exploring new opportunities. Other people may notice your calm, unhurried demeanor and be drawn to you. — Ingrid Fetel Lee, Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness

And when we shape our environment, we access the power to shape our lives. …

In this Interview, Alex Jamieson and Bob Gower, talk about the fundamentals of radical alignment. Along with advice on reducing interpersonal friction, and interacting with those around you to help transform your business and life.

In this Blog:

• Alex and Bob’s inspirations
• The hidden benefits of growing up privileged
• Their views on why relationships don’t work
• Overview of ‘Radical Alignment’
• The idea of Somatic Awareness
• Threefold path to Alignment
• Framework for having a Conversation
• Thoughts on being “Needy”

Let’s dive right in!

Alex and Bob’s Inspirations

Bob’s mother was a school teacher and his father a ceramic engineer that eventually became a salesperson. What influenced him a lot was that his father was actually born quite poor, his first love was history and his second was crystallography, but he chose to go into ceramic engineering for it’s guaranteed placement. …

Towards the end of 2018, I was miserable, depressed, and hopeless.

• A good friend of mine had drowned in Mexico.
• The woman I was seeing broke up with me two weeks before my 40th birthday and my business partner and I parted ways.
• The Launch of An Audience of One had failed to live up to my expectations. Ironically, letting go of your expectations was one of the primary messages of the book.

Every single time I got back up after falling, it felt like life punched me in the face and knocked me back down. By every criterion for success I had set for myself, I was failing. I found myself in tears at the dinner table at my parents’ house, unable to explain to my dad why my life was falling apart while my sister was happily engaged and planning a wedding. …